Sophomores and juniors reunited with their Eagle Buddies, while frosh and seniors attended LIFE sessions on addiction prevention and self-protection in dangerous college scenarios, respectively, on March 20.
Sophomores welcomed their buddies to the Upper School campus for the first time. Groups participated in a variety of activities like a scavenger hunt, karaoke, dance and volleyball. Sophomore Aarya Vaidya reflected on her buddies’ reactions to the Upper School campus.
“They were very overwhelmed but in a good way,” Aarya said. “They wanted to just explore everything and go everywhere, and that was really cute. They were surprised that we didn’t have a playground here.”
To end the visit, Upper School Director of Student Organizations Eric Kalbrier challenged sophomores and their buddies to gather around the AC and pass a ball around in a circle in under five minutes. They managed to beat the juniors’ record from last year, finishing in three minutes and fourteen seconds.
Juniors joined their Eagle Buddies on the Bucknall campus for recess and free time. Some groups played sports on the field and blacktop, while others folded origami, played word games and enjoyed other arts and crafts activities.
“It was great to catch up on their lives and see how they were doing, and they’re so fun to be around,” junior Isabelle Niu said. “We went to play a game of Mad Libs, and that was also a lot of fun because we had different Eagle Buddy groups join us, so it was a very interconnected experience.”
Frosh attended a LIFE session led by Christina Bowsher from Prevention Solutions on addiction, consent and refusal skills in the Auxiliary Gym. Using skits, videos and interactive activities, the presentation connected substance use and peer pressure to real-life situations students may face.

During the session, Bowsher asked students to reflect on their values, explained how addiction affects the brain’s dopamine system and walked volunteers through refusal-skill scenarios. Frosh Siri Gudladona, who participated in a skit where a pair of students were peer pressuring two other students to vape, noted how this life session was more interactive than other talks.
“I feel seminars talk more about drugs and how harmful they can be, rather than expanding on how you can avoid doing drugs,” Siri said. “Even though I knew it was just a skit, I really felt what it was like to be peer pressured into doing drugs.”
History teacher Jesse Lara appreciated the interactive elements of the talk that helped keep it interesting, highlighting the skit as his favorite part.
“The skit was amusing,” Lara said. “It makes the session a little bit easier for me to sit through and be able to get a little more fun out of it — there’s something other than just listening to a parent or an adult talk.”
The senior class attended their last LIFE session featuring sexual consent educator Shafia Zaloom in the Nichols auditorium. Zaloom covered a powerpoint covering topics ranging from different drug types to the definition of consent.
She wrapped up her presentation by presenting potential scenarios students might find themselves in post-graduation and asked students for their input. The scenarios included students studying together in a dorm, meeting online friends and more.
Senior Maryanne Davies remarks on the necessity of Ms. Zaloom’s presentation, and how important the lessons were. Although the information regarding drugs, consent and alcohol was not necessarily new she notes that they were good refreshers prior to leaving for college.
“I appreciated Ms. Zaloom’s upfrontness when discussing these topics,” said Maryanne. “And honestly, one of the biggest takeaways from her presentation for me was just the fact that everyone is learning simultaneously, and it’s important to not only educate yourself but also to give yourself grace as you learn to navigate difficult situations.”





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