Tossing out the taboo: profanity’s prohibition preventing progress
An illustration demonstrating the cultural taboo on swearing. In today’s culture, so-called ‘swear words’ are simply words relating to the taboo, be it bodily functions, anger, madness or anything else deemed socially uncomfortable.
March 23, 2023
As students slowly file into a classroom, grouping themselves into pairs and threes along a horse-shoe shaped table facing the blackboard, we start talking amongst ourselves, introducing who we are to our peers for the next four weeks.
After all, it was not every day where we attended a full day’s worth of dedicated writing direction. Our teacher, Dylan Alexander “The Captain” Mack, was late, an occurrence we soon would recognize as normal, and we failed to notice him stroll through the door. However, it was harder to overlook his presence when he sauntered over to his desk, slammed his fists on the table, and yelled for the entire class to hear: “When I’m in this room, you will all shut your m———— mouths.”
And so began my stint in the California State Summer School for the Arts (CSSSA), a four-week residential camp in Valencia for artistically inclined hopefuls. I studied under the Creative Writing department, and on the first day our four teachers discussed the use of swear words in our classroom. The rules would be the same as those of college, all our instructors being or having been college professors in the past, with us students allowed to use the language we wanted to, swearing or not, unless attempting to demean or deride others. In that case, any language, be it cuss-filled or not, would be reported.
Our teachers then proceeded to explain how as writers, we should see swear words as nothing more than just that: words. Means to express oneself, both in written works and in everyday life. That they did not need to be placed on the undeserved pedestal they reigned on, because their nature as strong language was exactly their purpose, and to shy away from them would be to avoid more powerful expressions of self. The pedestal itself is a part of the problem: we, as a community, give the words their potency. We create a negative feedback loop in which we fear a certain subset of words, making them more malicious, and so the cycle continues. Instead, the teachers encouraged us to understand the words we use, not to strip them of their power but to harness it for good.
In today’s culture, so-called ‘swear words’ are simply words relating to the taboo, be it bodily functions, anger, madness or anything else deemed socially uncomfortable. Swear words are heavily based on present-time social conventions, therefore being intrinsically fluid as society progresses. Historically, foul language for English-speakers originally predominantly related to religion, with blasphemous and religiously profane language being the taboo. In modern times, a shift occurred, transitioning language regarded as profane from the religious to the secular, replacing heresy with more physical and sexual terms as the new sinful words.
Researchers at Keele University in the United Kingdom discovered that people could hold their hands in ice water for longer periods of time if they were able to fire off expletives amidst their struggles, compared to if they were restricted to more neutral words. Swearing can be beneficial, helping us better tolerate pain and build emotional resilience. It can help to alleviate stress, since curse words are usually uttered with frustration. They provide a different sense of release than when we simply vent without expletives, because when we cuss we speak so without self-imposed limitations on our vocabularies. Without a filter, we can release our emotions fully, and thus relieve stress.
There very much is, however, a line drawn between freedom of expression and verbal harassment. Hate speech and speech otherwise meant to ostracize or belittle another is intolerable no matter the professionalism of the language. For this reason, slurs should not be used under any circumstances.
Even the Captain, despite his prolific practice of such language, never used the words or phrases in a malicious manner. There was a level of respect, going both from the teacher to the student and from the student to the teacher that leveled the ground and allowed for a more comfortable classroom environment. The students did not need to fear to watch what they were saying, and the teachers similarly enjoyed not needing to censor themselves.
What I’ve found to be the main factor preventing not only Harker but high schools in general from being unable to employ a similar custom is the lack of such respect and maturity. If students cannot be trusted to even keep their computers closed while the teacher is talking, it is unsurprising that we are disallowed from using such strong language.
School is an especially stress-inducing environment, and removing extra rules could help alleviate pressure. However, it is nonetheless understandable that profanity is barred from our language in the classroom. If we cannot pay attention to what our classmates or teachers are saying, how are we to be given the freedom to speak candidly? Perhaps it is only by improving students’ maturity that our entire school population can enjoy more privileges.





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bradley • Mar 23, 2023 at 4:19 pm
To me, words are just words, no matter their spelling. It’s their intent that is what’s most important.