Humans of Harker: Vienna Wang discovers golf and a new outlook on life
April 23, 2017
The school courtyard during lunch is a frenzy of hungry students and constant chatter. Senior Vienna Wang sits casually on a bench with her legs crossed in the middle of the quad, unfazed by the commotion. She laughs frequently and tells jokes, displaying her lively personality as she explains how playing golf and taking chances have shaped her high school experiences.
“In golf, when you’re making a shot you can either take a risk and go over an obstacle or you can play it safe and go around it but take an extra stroke,” Vienna said. “For me, I always risk it. If I have something in my way I’ll go for it. Sometimes the outcome is unexpected, but my life motto is ‘If there’s a tree, get over it. Just go for it.’”
In eighth grade, she developed hypothyroidism, a condition that made her lethargic and unmotivated most of the time.
“I took medication and everything, but I just felt like I wasn’t really living my life as I wanted to. I felt like I didn’t really have anything special,” Vienna said. “But golf helped. The people I met motivated me to push myself even further and I realized that don’t need to stay in this slump.”
Through golf, Vienna learned how to focus on the positives.
“Golf is not necessarily about how good you score but about how much you improve,” Vienna said. “I feel like from my freshman year until now I’ve definitely improved a lot mentally. Whenever I had a bad shot I used to just slam my clubs down because I’d be really mad at myself and frustrated. I blamed myself for what I did wrong. This year, even my teammates tell me I’m so much more patient now.”
Vienna’s passion for golf has not only helped her grow more patient with herself and others but has also taught her a new mindset. Instead of dwelling on her mistakes, she now looks to the future in what she can improve in herself.
“That’s kind of my philosophy on life now. If I’ve made a mistake, I don’t really look much into it,” Vienna said. “I feel like it’s okay to make mistakes, but you just need to move on. Obviously don’t make that same mistake over and over, but you shouldn’t blame yourself too much for anything.”