Humans of Harker: Surabhi Rao meditates to alleviate stress
“[Meditation] has definitely affected me in a very positive way. I remember a couple years ago, before I started doing this I used to be very tense about everything and worrisome, and I wasn’t very good with managing my time. After I started this I get into everything with a better mindset and much more calm and empty mind,” Surabhi Rao (12) said.
January 10, 2017
4:30 a.m. While the world around her is asleep, senior Surabhi Rao’s alarm rings. She follows the usual routine of washing her face and brushing her teeth. Then, she sits down, closes her eyes and meditates.
“It kind of just clears my mind,” Surabhi said. “Especially in the morning, I have a lot of work that I need to do because I do homework in the morning, and I also practice dance in the morning. Before I do all that, [meditation] kind of just releases the tension and clears my mind.”
Surabhi began meditation through the advice of her mother, Manorama Rao, a yoga teacher who eventually began meditation as an extension of her yoga study. She recognizes the impact it has on Surabhi’s mental state.
“She doesn’t get too excited or too depressed too quickly,” she said. “Most of the time she’s positive. She doesn’t take herself seriously, [and] she takes her commitment seriously. I think those are the things she gets from her meditation.”
Having struggled with coping with stress and work before, meditating helps her find balance in her life.
“[Meditation] has definitely affected me in a very positive way,” Surabhi said. “I remember a couple years ago, before I started doing this, I used to be very tense about everything and worrisome, and I wasn’t very good with managing my time. After I started this, I get into everything with a better mindset and much more calm and empty- minded.”
In the midst of her final year of high school, meditating has proved to be an effective method to help handle her busy schedule.
“For me, my courseload senior year is way harder than it was even junior year,” Surabhi said. “Even though I did start [meditation] a few years ago, it’s really helped me a lot especially this year because of all the things that have been going on with college apps and classes and stuff.”
Even after she leaves high school, Surabhi sees herself continuing this practice.
“I definitely see myself meditating in the future,” Surabhi said. “The workload is only going to get crazier, so I’ll probably keep doing it in college.





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