The Cat’s Meiow: Sneaker Wedges – An Alternative to Conformity

When I was in 8th grade, my French class voted me “la fille la plus élégante.” To this day, I’m not sure if it was a compliment or a hint that I need to stop dressing like an old lady.

The problem is, nothing that’s currently in vogue that really represents me. Is that all fashion is? Conforming?

After all, in this day and age, who really wants to be “elegant” when you can be cool. The popularity of midi-length skirts and tights is waning, and bro-tanks and harem pants appearing on runways and in stores.

Either it is because of our Bay Area atmosphere (because we’re all, like, hippies, remember?) or it is just a trend, but casual fashion is all the rage right now. This may come as a relief to those for whom skirts are a drudgery akin to finishing all the broccoli on one’s plate, but for girly-girls such as myself, a this is a major dilemma. Stay on trend, or keep to my beloved, if somewhat antiquated, aesthetic.

Personally, I’ve always loved A-line skirts (They’re comfortable and usually loose enough to hide a muffintop. What’s not to love?), as well as other girly, high-maintenance, and decidedly un-trendy articles of clothing. But when I really look in the mirror, I sometimes wonder if I’m crossing the line from “classic” to “‘80s movie mean girl.”

Maybe minus the shoulder pads.
Maybe minus the shoulder pads.

 

Sigh. Maybe it would just be easier to give in and buy a pair of moccasins.

Enter the sneaker wedge.

Personally, I think there hasn’t been anything so perfect since the Pillowpet. (It’s a sneaker – it’s a wedge – it’s a sneaker wedge!) Sneaker wedges have the casual appeal of a tennis shoe, but they keep the sophistication and dressed-up feel of a heel, and they are a must-have for a girly-girl who wants to stay on trend.

What I really like about sneaker wedges, though, is that they prove a point about fashion in general. I know a lot of people who dislike the idea of fashion because they perceive that it’s about changing how you dress to conform to society’s standards. What sneaker wedges have shown me is that it’s very possible to stay true to my own standards of dress while keeping my wardrobe fresh. I can be elegant and fit in at the same time.

Fashion isn’t about looking like everyone else, it’s about self-expression in a way that other people can understand.

You can wear the trend without letting it wear you.